Family Devotionals: What Does the Assemblies of God Believe About Family and Community?
- Boundless Team
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The Assemblies of God believes that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, family is the primary foundation for spiritual growth, and the local church serves as an essential, extended spiritual family for every believer.
Rooted in Relationship: Why Family Matters in the 901
In the heart of Memphis and across the vibrant neighborhoods of Shelby County, from the bustling streets of Cordova to the quiet suburbs of Bartlett and Arlington, the concept of "family" is more than just a social unit. For those of us at First Assembly Memphis, family is a divine design. It is the first place where we learn about love, grace, and the character of God.
But what does our heritage in the Assemblies of God actually say about these relationships? In a world that is constantly shifting its definitions, having a biblical North Star is essential. Whether you are raising a family in the 901 or connecting with our global community through Boundless Online Church, understanding these core beliefs helps us build homes that reflect the light of Christ.
1. Marriage: A Sacred and Lifelong Covenant
The Assemblies of God holds a high view of marriage, seeing it not as a mere human contract that can be dissolved when things get difficult, but as a sacred covenant.
The Biblical Foundation Marriage was created by God, not by culture. Based on the teachings of Scripture (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:4–6), we believe marriage is the union of one man and one woman in a lifelong commitment. This relationship is intended to be the most intimate of human bonds, reflecting the relationship between Christ and His Church.
Mutual Sacrifice and Sanctification Marriage isn't just about personal happiness; it’s about holiness. It is a space where two people learn the art of "mutually sacrificial love." This means putting the needs of your spouse above your own, just as Jesus gave Himself up for us. In the 901, where life can be fast-paced and stressful, a healthy marriage serves as an anchor for the entire family.
Definition Block: Sanctification Sanctification is the ongoing process of being set apart for God’s purposes and becoming more like Jesus Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. In the context of family, it is the daily work of growing in patience, kindness, and selfless love.
2. Parenting: The First Mission Field
If marriage is the foundation, parenting is the building project. The Assemblies of God views parents as the primary spiritual and moral educators of their children. While the church is here to support you, the most important "Sunday School" happens at your breakfast table in Germantown or during your evening prayers in Collierville.
Discipleship at Home Scripture commands parents to "train up a child in the way he should go" (Proverbs 22:6). This isn't just about teaching rules; it’s about modeling a lifestyle of faith. When children see their parents praying, reading the Bible, and serving others, they learn that Jesus isn't just a "church topic", He is the Lord of all life.
The Role of the Home in Shelby County Raising kids today comes with unique challenges, from digital distractions to cultural pressures. By focusing on biblical values, families in the Memphis area can provide a safe harbor for their children. Whether you’re involved in our Mother's Day Out program or engaging with our youth and kids ministries, the goal remains the same: to see the next generation firmly rooted in Christ.
Definition Block: Discipleship Discipleship is the intentional process of following Jesus and helping others do the same. In a family setting, this involves teaching children how to pray, understand Scripture, and apply God’s truth to their daily lives.
3. Community: The Church as an Extended Family
We weren't meant to do life alone. One of the most beautiful aspects of the Assemblies of God tradition is the emphasis on "the body of Christ." The local church is not a building; it is a community of believers who function as a spiritual family.
Support for Every Stage of Life A healthy community cares for everyone, the single parent, the grieving widow, the college student, and the retired couple. At FA Memphis, we see this in action through our various ministries, from Prime Time Cruzers for our seniors to our recreational sports for families.
Local and Global Connection In our "901" region, community looks like neighbors helping neighbors during a storm or gathering for a Trunk or Treat event. But community also extends beyond geography. Through Boundless Online Church, we offer a digital spiritual home for those who are traveling, homebound, or living in areas without a healthy local church.
Family & Community Principles: A Quick Guide
Topic | Biblical Principle | Practical Application |
Marriage | Lifelong Covenant (Mt 19:6) | Prioritize "date nights" and daily prayer with your spouse. |
Parenting | Spiritual Stewardship (Dt 6:6-7) | Turn car rides into "God-talk" moments about your day. |
Fellowship | Mutual Encouragement (Heb 10:25) | Join a small group or serve in a local Memphis outreach. |
Conflict | Grace and Truth (Eph 4:32) | Practice "quick to listen, slow to speak" at the dinner table. |
Practical Takeaways for Your Week
The 5-Minute Family Huddle: Before everyone heads out the door in the morning, take five minutes to pray for each other’s day. It sets a spiritual tone for the hours ahead.
Open Your Table: Community starts with hospitality. Invite a neighbor or a fellow church member over for coffee or a simple meal.
Audit Your Influence: Take a look at what is influencing your home the most. Is it the Word of God, or is it the noise of the world? Make a conscious effort to bring Scripture back into the center of your daily routine.
Stay Connected: Whether you attend in person at our Memphis campus or join us online, don't let a week go by without connecting with your spiritual family.
A Unified Vision for the Future
As we look toward the future of our city and our world, the health of our families and our communities will determine our impact. When our marriages are strong, our children are discipled, and our churches are unified, we become a "city on a hill" that cannot be hidden.
The Assemblies of God believes that God is still in the business of restoring families and building communities. No matter what your past looks like, there is a place for you here. You are not just a face in the crowd; you are a valued member of the family of God.
Are you ready to take the next step in your journey with family and community?
If you're in Memphis, Cordova, Arlington, Bartlett, or the 901 area, we would love to welcome you in person at First Assembly Memphis: 🌐 www.famemphis.org
If you're outside our local area or unable to attend in person, find your community with us online at Boundless Online Church: 🌐 www.boundlessonlinechurch.org
Need prayers? Text us day or night at 1-901-213-7341. (Note: This line is for prayer and pastoral support, not emergency services. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, please call 911.)
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