How Do You Pray in the Holy Spirit?
- Boundless Team

- Jun 23
- 5 min read
Bible Study: How Do You Pray in the Holy Spirit?
Praying in the Holy Spirit means yielding your prayer life to the Spirit’s guidance, power, and alignment with God's Word. It includes both praying with your understanding (known language) and praying in tongues (spiritual language) to build your faith and commune deeply with God.
Have you ever sat down to pray and felt like your words were hitting the ceiling? We have all been there. You want to connect with God, but sometimes the "human" side of prayer, our grocery lists of requests and our limited vocabulary, feels a bit dry.
In the heart of Memphis, from Cordova to Bartlett, and across the global digital community of Boundless, believers are asking: Is there more to prayer than just talking?
The answer is a resounding "Yes." The Bible introduces us to a concept that shifts prayer from a monologue into a supernatural partnership: Praying in the Holy Spirit. This isn't a religious ritual or a complex formula; it is an invitation to let the Spirit of God lead the conversation.
What Does It Mean to Pray in the Spirit?
To understand how to pray in the Holy Spirit, we first need to define a few terms. In the Assemblies of God tradition, we believe that the Holy Spirit is not an abstract force but a Person who lives within every believer.
Term | Biblical Definition |
Baptism in the Holy Spirit | An experience following salvation that empowers believers for life, witness, and service (Acts 1:8). |
Tongues | A supernatural gift where the Holy Spirit speaks through a believer in a language they haven’t learned (Acts 2:4). |
Intercession | Standing in the gap for others through prayer, often guided by the Spirit’s promptings (Romans 8:26). |
Sanctification | The lifelong process of being set apart for God and becoming more like Jesus through the Spirit's power. |
Building Your Inner Self: Jude 1:20
One of the most famous verses regarding this topic is found in the short book of Jude. He writes:
"But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit..." (Jude 1:20)
Notice the result of praying in the Spirit: it builds you up. Just like a builder adds bricks to a foundation to create a strong house, praying in the Spirit adds spiritual strength to your "inner man." When life in the 901 gets stressful, whether it’s traffic on I-40 or pressure at work, praying in the Spirit acts as a spiritual battery charger.

The Balance: Spirit and Mind (1 Corinthians 14:14-15)
A common misconception is that "praying in the Spirit" only refers to speaking in tongues. While tongues are a vital part of this experience, the Apostle Paul gives us a more complete picture in his letter to the Corinthians:
"For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my understanding is unfruitful. What is the conclusion then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding." (1 Corinthians 14:14-15)
Paul isn't choosing one over the other; he is encouraging both.
Praying with Understanding: This is when you use your native language to express your heart, read Scripture aloud, and bring specific requests to God. This is your "mind" being fruitful.
Praying with the Spirit: This is when you yield your voice to the Holy Spirit, often through the gift of tongues. Your mind might not understand the specific words, but your spirit is in direct communion with the Father.
Why Do We Need Both?
Imagine trying to describe the beauty of a sunset at Shelby Farms using only three words. You’d run out of vocabulary quickly! Our human minds are limited. We don’t always know how to pray as we ought (Romans 8:26).
When we pray in the Spirit, the Holy Spirit helps our weakness. He prays through us according to the perfect will of God. This brings a sense of peace that transcends our circumstances because we know that God is interceding through us.

Practical Steps: How to Start Praying in the Spirit
If you are looking for a practical "how-to" to deepen your prayer life today, try these steps:
1. Start with Worship
Turn on a worship song or simply begin thanking God for who He is. Worship shifts your focus from your problems to God’s presence. This is the "on-ramp" to Spirit-led prayer.
2. Pray the Word
Open your Bible to a Psalm or a passage like Ephesians 1. Read it aloud and turn it into a prayer. For example: "Lord, I thank You that You have blessed me with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places." This is praying "with understanding" but fueled by the Spirit’s Word.
3. Ask for the Spirit’s Leading
Simply say, "Holy Spirit, I don't know exactly what to pray for today. Will You lead me? Show me what is on Your heart." Then, listen. You might feel a nudge to pray for a specific neighbor in Cordova or a family member you haven't spoken to in weeks.
4. Use Your Prayer Language
If you have received the gift of tongues, use it! Don't worry about how it sounds. As you pray in the spirit, you are bypassing your human limitations and letting God’s power flow through your life.
5. Pray for Your Community
Whether you are in Memphis or joining us from the other side of the world through Boundless Online Church, use your prayer time to intercede for your city. Pray for the 901 area, for safety, for the schools in Bartlett and Arlington, and for local churches to be lighthouses of hope.
A Resource for Your Journey
We believe that every believer is called to a vibrant, Spirit-filled life. To help you take your next step, we’ve created a simple guide you can use during your morning devotions.
Takeaway Guide: The Prayer Balance
Morning: 10 minutes of praying with understanding (Scripture).
Afternoon: Quick "breath prayers" (asking the Spirit for wisdom).
Evening: Time spent praying in the Spirit (tongues/intercession) to "build yourself up."
You Are Not Alone in This
Faith wasn't meant to be lived in isolation. Whether you are walking through a season of joy or a valley of shadow, we want to walk with you.

If you are in Memphis, Cordova, Arlington, Bartlett, or the surrounding 901 area, we invite you to join us in person. There is something powerful about the "laying on of hands" and praying together as a local family. You can find our service times and location at www.famemphis.org.
If you are outside of our local area or unable to attend in person, you have a home at Boundless Online Church. We offer digital small groups, live prayer support, and a community that spans the globe.
Need prayers? Text us day or night at 1-901-213-7341. (Note: This line is for prayer and pastoral support, not emergency services. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, please call 911.)
We believe that as you begin to pray in the Holy Spirit, you will see a transformation not just in your prayer life, but in your family, your workplace, and your city. Let's grow together.

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