How to Pray for Those Who Persecute You: Living Out the Radical Love of Jesus
- Boundless Team

- Mar 22
- 4 min read
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Praying for those who persecute you is the practical application of Jesus’s command to love our enemies. It involves interceding for their salvation, asking for God’s blessing over their lives, and releasing personal bitterness. This radical act of faith shifts our focus from hurt to God’s redemptive power, aligning our hearts with Christ’s example and the Assemblies of God’s commitment to Spirit-empowered living and global evangelism.
Bible Verses to Guide You
Matthew 5:44-45 (NIV) "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous."
Luke 23:34 (NIV) "Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.'"
Romans 12:14 (NIV) "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse."
1 Peter 2:23 (NIV) "When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly."

Why This is the Hardest (and Best) Prayer
Let’s be honest: praying for someone who is actively trying to hurt you feels completely upside down.
In our natural selves, we want justice, or maybe even a little bit of revenge. We want the person who is spreading lies about us, mocking our faith, or making our lives difficult to face the consequences. But Jesus calls us to a different way of living.
At Boundless Online Church, we believe that we help people meet Jesus and grow in faith online. Part of that growth is learning how to handle the hard stuff, the moments when your faith is tested by the people around you.
When Jesus told us to pray for our persecutors, He wasn't giving us a suggestion. He was giving us a key to spiritual freedom. This isn't just about the other person; it's about what God wants to do inside of you.
It’s a Matter of Doctrine
This practice is rooted deeply in what we believe. If you’ve ever looked at the 16 Fundamental Truths of the Assemblies of God, you’ll see that Sanctification is a big deal.
Sanctification is just a churchy word for "becoming more like Jesus." Jesus prayed for the very people who were nailing Him to the cross. If we are following Him, our prayer lives should look like His. It’s an act of Spirit-empowered living that shows the world we belong to a different Kingdom.

Practical Steps: How to Actually Do It
If you’re struggling to find the words, you aren't alone. Here is a simple way to start praying for those who are making life difficult for you.
1. Be Specific and Use Their Name
Don't just pray a general "bless my enemies" prayer. Bring the specific person before God. When you use their name, it reminds you that they are a human being, a person created in the image of God who is currently lost or hurting.
2. Pray for Their Salvation
Most people who persecute Christians do so because they don't truly know the love of Christ. Pray that their eyes would be opened. Pray that the Holy Spirit would convict them and lead them to repentance. This is the ultimate "win." When a persecutor becomes a brother or sister in Christ, the enemy loses his foothold.
3. Ask God to Bless Them
This is the part that stings. Romans 12:14 tells us to "bless and do not curse." Ask God to provide for their needs, to heal their brokenness, and to show them kindness. It’s hard to stay angry at someone while you are sincerely asking God to be good to them.
4. Pray for Your Own Heart
Persecution can breed bitterness faster than almost anything else. Ask God to keep your heart soft. Ask for the "boldness" that the early church prayed for in the book of Acts. Pray that your response to their hate would be so full of grace that they can't help but see Jesus in you.

What Happens When You Pray?
You might be wondering, "Does this actually change them?"
Sometimes it does. We’ve seen stories throughout history of people who were transformed because of the prayers of the persecuted. But even if they never change, you will.
Prayer for your enemies breaks the chain of resentment that keeps you tied to them. It hands the "judge's gavel" back to God and allows you to walk in peace. You stop being a victim of their actions and start being a partner in God’s redemptive work.
For those of you in our global community who might be in unsafe areas or facing severe physical persecution, please know that you are not alone. We take these requests seriously. If you need a community to stand with you, please visit our Prayer Wall or join one of our online Bible studies.

A Prayer for the Persecuted and the Persecutor
Heavenly Father,
I come to You today with a heavy heart. You know the situation I am facing and the people who are causing me pain. Lord, it’s hard to love them right now, but I choose to obey Your Word.
I lift up [Name] to You. I ask that You would reveal Your truth to them. If they don't know You, I pray that this would be the day they encounter Your radical love. Soften their heart and turn their life toward You.
I also ask for Your protection and peace over my own life. Don't let bitterness take root in me. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I can respond with grace, wisdom, and strength. I entrust this situation into Your hands, knowing that You are a just and loving Judge.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Next Steps
Living out the radical love of Jesus isn't something we can do in our own strength. We need the community of believers and the power of the Word. If you want to dive deeper into how to live out your faith in a world that often opposes it, we invite you to check out our Sunday Sermons or browse our other faith and discipleship resources.
Do you have a specific situation you’re walking through? We would love to pray with you.
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