How Do I Find My Spiritual Gift to Serve the Church?

Discover your spiritual gift through prayer, serving in various ministries, taking assessments, and asking trusted believers for feedback. The Holy Spirit reveals your gifts as you actively serve, not while you sit on the sidelines waiting for certainty.

Why This Matters for Memphis Leaders

Here at First Assembly Memphis, we believe every believer in the 901 has a God-given role in the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12). When you discover and use your spiritual gifts, you don’t just “stay busy”—you help strengthen families, serve our city, and build up the church in a way that actually lasts.

Look, I get it. You’re busy leading at work, raising kids, juggling schedules, and trying to keep your faith real in Memphis. But here’s the thing: God doesn’t waste your wiring. He wants to channel it through Spirit-empowered service that helps people meet Jesus and grow.

Start With the Source: Prayer and the Holy Spirit

Before you take a single assessment or volunteer for a single ministry, you need to talk to the One who distributed the gifts in the first place. The Holy Spirit isn't some vague force, He's a Person, and He knows exactly how you're wired spiritually.

This is where our Pentecostal roots matter. We don’t just believe the Holy Spirit was active 2,000 years ago; we believe He’s still moving today, empowering believers with gifts for service (Acts 1:8; 1 Corinthians 12). When you pray, you’re not tossing wishes into the void—you’re talking to the divine Gift-Giver Himself.

Ask Him directly: "What gifts have You placed in me? How do You want to use me in Your church?" Then listen. Sometimes the answer comes as a strong impression. Sometimes it's a door that opens. Sometimes it's a passion that won't go away.

The baptism in the Holy Spirit, which we hold as a biblical distinctive, is accompanied by the initial physical evidence of speaking in tongues (Acts 2:4). And it’s not just a moment—it’s empowerment for witness and service (Acts 1:8). As you walk with the Spirit, He helps activate and clarify the gifts He’s placed in you to build up the body of Christ.

Get Some Perspective: Take a Spiritual Gifts Assessment

Here's a confession: assessments aren't scripture. They're not infallible. But they're also not useless.

Think of spiritual gifts assessments like those personality tests you've probably taken for work. They don't define you, but they can reveal patterns you've been too close to see. They ask questions about what energizes you, where you naturally excel, and what burdens your heart.

You can find several solid assessments online, but don't treat the results like a prophecy from Mount Sinai. They're a starting point for reflection, not the final word. The real validation comes from serving and seeing fruit.

For you leaders and influencers reading this, assessments can be especially helpful because you're used to strategic thinking. You analyze data in your businesses, why not apply that same analytical approach to your spiritual development? Just remember: the goal isn't to label yourself. It's to understand how God might want to deploy your unique wiring in His church.

Jump In the Game: Serve in Different Ministries

Here's where a lot of Memphis high-achievers get stuck. You want to know your gift before you commit to serving. But that's backwards.

You don't discover your spiritual gift by thinking about it. You discover it by doing.

At First Assembly Memphis, there are real ways to try serving—like helping with hospitality, jumping into a Life Group, serving through FACS, or getting connected through The Journey. You won’t know where you fit until you try.

This is especially true if you're used to leadership roles in your career. The ministry where God wants to use you might surprise you. That confidence you bring to work? God might channel it into leading, encouraging, or teaching in a Life Group. Or He might grow you through a behind-the-scenes role where you learn consistency and humility. Either way, serving has a way of revealing what God’s already been building in you.

Serve for a season. Pay attention to what lights you up and what drains you. Notice where people respond and where you see God move. Your spiritual gift isn't theoretical, it's practical. It shows up in action.

The Assemblies of God has always emphasized that spiritual gifts aren't decorations, they're tools for building the kingdom. So pick up some tools and start building.

Get Outside Input: Ask Trusted Believers

You have blind spots. We all do.

Sometimes the gifts that come most naturally to us are the ones we take for granted. You might be an incredible encourager without realizing it because it feels effortless. You might have the gift of administration and not recognize it because organizing chaos just seems obvious to you.

This is where community becomes crucial. Talk to mature believers who've watched you serve. Ask your small group leader. Get feedback from ministry coordinators. Seek input from people who've walked with Jesus longer than you have.

In Memphis, we don’t do lone-ranger Christianity. We need community—people who can pray with you, challenge you, and confirm what they see in you over time. Don’t skip that part.

When multiple people independently confirm that you're gifted in a particular area, pay attention. That's the body of Christ functioning the way Scripture describes, each part recognizing and affirming the others.

And here's a word specifically for you leaders: don't let your professional success create pride that blocks feedback. Just because you're crushing it in business doesn't mean you've automatically mastered spiritual discernment. Stay humble. Stay teachable.

Watch for Patterns: Passion Plus Effectiveness

Your spiritual gift usually sits at the intersection of two things: what you're passionate about and what you're effective at doing.

Passion alone isn't enough. I might be passionate about music, but if I sound like a dying cat when I sing, that's probably not my spiritual gift. Conversely, you might be technically capable at something but feel zero fire for it, that's probably not your sweet spot either.

But when passion and effectiveness collide? That's when you know you're operating in your gift. You feel energized rather than drained. You see results. Other people benefit. The church is built up.

Look for that combination in your serving. Where do you feel most alive? Where do people consistently tell you, "This really helped me"? Where does time fly because you're so engaged?

For the movers and shakers reading this, you already understand return on investment. Apply that same lens spiritually. Where is your service producing the most kingdom fruit? That's likely where your gift lies.

Now Use What You've Discovered

Discovering your spiritual gift isn't the finish line, it's the starting line.

Once you identify your gift, steward it. Develop it. Use it consistently. The parable of the talents teaches us that God expects return on what He's invested in us. Your spiritual gift isn't meant to sit in a vault; it's meant to be deployed for the advance of His kingdom in Memphis and beyond.

At First Assembly Memphis, we're building a movement of Spirit-empowered believers who know their gifts and use them strategically. We need your gifts. The 901 needs your gifts. The kingdom needs your gifts.

The church isn't a building, it's a body. And every body part has a function. What's yours?

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